Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Assignment #2 What Do You Love?

Part 1
I interviewed my father to ask him what I was like and what I loved in my primary years of life. My father told me that the first 5 years of my life I was very smart. He said that I would learn thing easily and use to try to analyze things. An example he gave was when I was 2 years old, I would love to pick up the phone and dial numbers to act like I was calling people. He said that he purposely unplugged the cord and left the room and when I wanted to use the phone and discovered that there was no dial tone, I traced the cord so that I could plug it back in. My father also said that during the first five years of my life I was mannerable and well-behaved.
My father told me that when I was little I use to love to stay up late with him and watch movies. I found that funny because I still do the same thing today. He also remember me loving to jump rope outside. What my father thought was unique about me was that I was outgoing and I was just about a friend to everyone I came in contact with.
When I asked my father what he thought I woould grow up to be when I was little, he told me that he thought that I was going to be a lawyer. I found that shocking because I grew older him and my mother was always pushing for me to be a doctor. He said that he thought that only becuase I use to talk a lot when I was little. He said that when we use to go on road trips I was always the one who stayed up late with him and kept him talking while everyone else slept the whole way.

Part 2
When I asked my friends if they could list for me my strengths and weaknesses, it seemed like most of their reponses were similar which made me think a lot. I realized that may I should change some of my ways in order to work on my weaknesses. Some of the feedback that I got back for my weaknesses was that I let people walk over me sometimes, I can be naive sometimes, I don't say what I truly want to say sometimes, I have low self-confidence when I am struggling through life sometimes, and that I let my past hurts and pain interfere with my present sometime. To me all of these go hand in hand and I believe that I should work on these downfalls.
When I asked my friends if they list for me my strengths, they told me that I was strong-minded, kind, dedicated, compassionate, that I have a high tolerance for hardships and pain. I can understand where all of them are coming from, but it also makes me think sometimes if I am too nice since my strengths seems like they somewhat connect to my weaknesses.

Part 3
One activity that I listed during our class activity was about jump roping. I use to enjoy doing that as a little girl in elementary school. The last time I jumped rope was for the first time in a long time sice grade school was my junior year in high school. I almost forgot about the assignment that we were suppose to do something that we haven't done from when we younger this week, and I actually ended up jumping rope with some little kids and my friend Kristen this weekend at a barbeque. I found it funny because I looked like a big kid jumping rope, but I still enjoyed myself all in the same.

5 comments:

  1. I love the way you described your relationship with your father. It reminds me of my relationship with my late father Johnnie Daily. We used to stay up late and watch movies as well. Cherish your father always...When your parents are gone you will miss them so. Don't be afraid to tell your father that you love him. I wish that I would have say those three words much more...Great post!

    See you in class,
    Michelle A. Daily

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  2. It's interesting that you (mis)interpreted the assignment as being one where ask people about your strengths and weaknesses. The assignment was just to ask people about your STRENGTHS and GREATEST GIFTS. Why do you think you added a negative component where one wasn't present?

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  4. I realized that I made that mistake, but it was interesting enough to see how people viewed me though.

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  5. The reason professor Rock asked you to ask your strengths and not your weakness is because in our everyday encounters a person is more likely to point out our weaknesses versus telling us something positive. That is why the assignment was to focus on your strength. Try to think positive:)

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